Not Discussing Money with Your Daughter? 4 Good Reasons You Should Be.


August 25, 2016

For most parents it’s normal to want to protect their kids (and especially their daughters) from things they feel are too complex. When kids ask questions about how much money we make, and why we can’t buy them that new toy, it feels personal. And, our instinct is to distract them with something and change the subject. That’s what we should be doing, right?

Not really. There are many reasons why you can and should start talking about money with your daughter as early as when she’s 5 years old. And, we have four important ones you may not have considered

They are like sponges, ready and willing to learn!

If you avoid introducing money concepts to her because you think she won’t understand them, think again. Developmentally, from ages 5-6, your daughter’s attention span is increasing. She’s starting to understand concepts such as time and learning the importance of rules. She is also gaining new skills every day to help her become more self-sufficient. More importantly, she’s eager to explore and learn. Therefore, it is a perfect time to introduce the basics of the topics that are relevant and appropriate for her age.

It’s great news that she is capable of learning such concepts early. But even better news is that she wants to! A 2013 Girl Scout report found 90% of girls 8-17 think it’s important to learn how to manage money. And 87% believe that it’s important to set financial goals.

It instills a different kind of confidence, and, it save you money.

“Only 20% of women feel well prepared to make wise financial decisions”

Financial insecurity is a largely ignored topic throughout girls’ childhood and teenage years. That is a result of us not realizing how much our daughters encounter money and finance-related subjects every day: from overhearing you talk about it with your spouse, to the never-ending sales and offers that surround us.

By exposing our daughters to the subject from an early age, and continuing and expanding on the conversation, we are nurturing her financial confidence by equipping her with the knowledge and skillset needed. We are also instilling other important habits that her future self will thank you for. And, it doesn’t hurt if she saves you some money by becoming savvier around her own saving and spending decisions.

Our daughters are at an automatic disadvantage.

We still have a long way to go to achieve gender equality. Nowhere is that clearer than when we look at the challenges our girls face. When it comes to learning about money and finances, boys receive more attention, motivation and mentoring to become financially successful. This pattern continues well into adulthood. Because girls and women are lagging behind, only 20% of women feel well prepared to make wise financial decisions according to a 2014-2015 Research Study on Financial Experience and Behaviors Among Women conducted by Prudential.

To add to the stress, today a gender-based wage gap still exists. Women are being paid less than men for the same jobs. This becomes more challenging over the long-term, since women spend less time in the workforce to raise kids, and they outlive men by an average of 7 years. Which means they have to work so much harder to save for retirement.

Sure, it seems like a lifetime away before your daughter enters her adult life, but nothing but good can come out giving her a head start with early financial awareness.

We want our daughters to be empowered and have the freedom to choose the lives they want.

What parent doesn’t want to give their daughter all they can and provide them with a better life growing up? We all dream of that for our girls.

An early financial education will provide our daughters with knowledge, tools and skills that will help her create possibilities to have as many options and choices in life as any financially empowered adult women should. And what a beautiful gift that is to our little ones.

Article by Dina Shoman

Dina Shoman Dina Shoman is a banking veteran who comes from a long family history in banking. Having built a successful career in the industry while still in her 20s, she became the youngest and first woman Executive Vice President at Arab Bank, holding board seats on the boards of multiple bank and nonprofit entities. By 2012, she was listed as the 3rd most powerful Arab business women in publicly owned companies in 2012 by Forbes Middle East and was nominated as a Young Global Leader by the World Economic Forum in the same year. Dina is the founder of inherQuests, a company that creates fun financial education products for kids. The company’s first products (Financial Fun Boxes) are focused on teaching girls as young as 5 years old financial literacy through money games for girls built as a curriculum of educational standards aligned to Common Core and which uses the experiential education and game-based learning models. Dina served as Executive Vice President and Head of Branding at Arab Bank from 2006 to 2012 and served as a Member of its Board of Arab Bank plc in addition to other related entities such as Arab Bank Switzerland and Arab Bank Australia, as well as several reputable NGOs in Jordan like the Abdul Hameed Shoman Foundation, the Jordan River Foundation and INJAZ. She currently holds advisory positions to startups, and volunteers with nonprofit organizations such Junior Achievement, Global Teacher Prize Award, and the International Youth Foundation. Dina was born and raised in Jordan and educated in the United States. She holds a BS in Finance, and an MBA from Bentley University, as well as a Professional Certificate from Georgetown University in Organizational Consulting and Change Leadership.

You might also like:


We’re on a Mission

At inherQuests, we believe that financial literacy is a basic life skill that everyone should be taught at a young age.

Learn More